Archive for October, 2008
A case of the Blogcks
Oct 29th
Darn it, I have a major, major case of the Blogcks, that nefarious condition that sneaks up on you in the busyness of everyday life. The blogcks is a very shady pseudonym for Bloggers Block or Writers block, that i not so inspiringly have decided to write about today.
Yes, the blogcks…this is whats happening to me now. For days so much has been going down in my life, the Master sometimes doesn’t go easy on His trials of fire, and i’ve been feeling the need to vent and rant on here but I couldn’t. My mind would go blank everytime I think about blogging. Strange. But i’m sure all you bloggers have experienced a case of the blogcks.
I guess it also comes down to an unconcious pressure that comes from being a part of a vibrant blogging community. Like some unspoken expectation that everyday, you log on to blogspirit looking to see what everyone has written. Then you start getting this nawing feeling in the back of your skull that you aren’t on the days updated list. So you feel the need to write something clever, something moving cause everyone else’s entries are just so darned good and you can’t stand More >
Be still… I know that I aint God!
Oct 24th
Riiiiiiiiiigght!
For the last few days i’ve been in a completely bamboozled state of being. Interesting how we can make so many plans for our lives and meanwhile, Abba is up there shaking His Glorious head in bemusement. The All knowing God has majorly different plans for our lives but we’re not too bothered about that, now are we?
We think we can control everything. We’re not even interested in His plan for our lives. Oh sure, we all make a good show of it with each other, “oh i wish I knew Gods will for my life”. Lets be honest here…No your don’t! Cause we’re selfish and self driven and His will usually means self sacrifice and giving, not receiving and being pampered. We want what we want not what He wants us to have.
Anyways, I wanted so many different things for my life and I had this pretty good idea of how to get them, when to get them. To say that this year has proven me soooooooo wrong is the understatement of my 29 years. The Great Master has pulled move after move to show me that I am so incapable of being Him.
You see, I have a very More >
Uganda.Ungifted by nature
Oct 21st
I’m quite concerned right now.I have heard from a friend who lives in Entebbe that everyday now, there has been road work in preparation for the Tripartite conference to be attended by 26 african heads of state. By road work, i mean they are washing the road. Literally. Over 30kms of it too.
Now, i don’t know about the rest of you, but the image of guys on the road with brushes, blue bar soap and jerrycan’s of water is extremely depressing. Does anybody else think that this is a terrible sign of the multitude of underlying problems that are slowly but surely eroding this country away. Washing the road????
Back in the day, the rogueking and I learnt a truism that kept us sane. “Never under estimate the ingenuity of idiots” How else on earth can we justify scores of men and women, getting up everyday, earning a living by going to wash a road because some presidents are coming and we can’t afford to look bad and all because another idiot decided to embezzle the funds that were meant for building a proper highway with good drainage?!
As you can tell, i’m extremely frustrated. No, I’m disgusted and outraged. This is More >
Dishonesty…the best policy?
Oct 14th
My wife is not all happy with me. Every married man knows, that thats not a good place to be. What’s the reason you ask? Dishonesty. Yes, you heard right, DISHONESTY. Ironically, not my dishonesty but another mans! Ok I guess this is begging to sound like “Secreto de Amor” – for those who don’t watch Ugandan television, that’s a terrible south american telenovela.
The man in question, is a carpenter.
A little background. Two and half months ago, I commissioned the said carpenter to make my then fiance’s and my dream bed. He said it would take 3weeks. I liked his work, his smooth professional demeanor and nice office setup. Without hesitation, I gave him 50% down payment. The deal was set.
3weeks later, and 2weeks to my wedding, no bed. I’m not worried. The worst he could take is another few days, just on time to have it delivered so my new wife can find it after the wedding. Yeah right! Up until the wedding day i was calling him. He continued to speak smoothly and assure me how the polish needs time to dry properly and so it would be ready for delivery Saturday, the day after my wedding! Did More >
Am I a "Real" Man?
Oct 13th
This is the question that has plagued me for a while now. What is a real man anyway? How do you spot one? Where can I find one to be a mentor? Questions, questions and more questions!
A couple of years back, I hit the age of 25 and had what I call, a Quater-Century crisis. I was going nuts because I couldn’t define who I was and what I was doing on God’s green earth. My dad had recently passed away and I was distraught because I realized I didn’t know the man. I didn’t know what he thought of me, or what he thought of himself. A son needs his father to tell him who he is or atleast who he can be.
I realised that for one thing, a Real Man doesn’t leave their children asking such questions. A real man is not defined by the size of his pecs or his bank account. Nor by the number of women he’s bedded or the size of his spinning rims. A real man isn’t even defined by conquering industry and becoming a billionaire or conquering a country and becoming a life president.
So what is a real man? I started asking lots More >
The "Best" Test by Chris Widener
Oct 10th
The topic they assigned me was “Simply the Best.” So as I prepared, I asked myself, “What characteristics would help someone pass the “Best” test? That is, what are the characteristics of those who become the “best” at what they do? Here are the thoughts I shared with them:
The Best are Optimists. You can’t get to the top if you don’t think that there is a top or if you think you can’t make it. One characteristic of those who reach the peak is that they always believe that things can get better or be done better. This pushes them on to be their best.
The Best have Vision. They can see ahead of the More >
As Iron sharpens Iron…An Ode to a Rogue…Rennaissance Man
Oct 8th
I’m sitting at my desk totally flabergasted and stunned at the blessings The Master puts in our lives, usually innocously diguised in the unlikely package of a young friend. I have a friend, my dearest and best friend after my wife, an amazing young man who goes by the alias the rogueking. I’ve known him for close to 8years now.
We met unceremoniously at the very first internet cafe in Kampala years back when being a geek wasn’t as cool or profitable as it is is today. We were in a sense digital outcasts, but we didn’t care. We had passion, vision and loads of naivete. We became fast friends very quickly due to our shared interests in quantum physics, robotics, space/time, videogames, lord of the rings, the dark knight, ironman, superman, xmen and ofcourse, The Great One…Oh did i mention we really loved all things form & function related to computers? Yeah as you can tell we were and still are, thoroughbred geeks
He immediately took me up as his older brother and I saw the brotherly relationship i’d never had with my own brothers. We began to dream and soon, an urban legend was born. The first of its kind More >
The mystery of self motivation
Oct 7th
Ok, so I really didn’t want to write anything today which brings me to the topic of discussion today. How do we go about motivating ourselves to get things done? I mean especially those things we don’t want to do but are essential for our progress in life. I don’t know about you guys out there but my biggest motivation challenge is that of getting out of bed before 10am!
Yeah laugh if you will but seriously, you wake up and ask yourself, why do i have to get out of bed and work? Why do we need money to survive in this day and age? Why am i busy fulfilling someone elses dream and not even getting a pat on the back? These kinda questions plague many of us but the fear of loss atleast motivates us to get to work and earn our paycheck.
But my question is, how do we positively motivate ourselves to get outta bed and work passionately, to work on our relationships, to develop our talents and interests, to spend time meditating in the presence of God, to write an excellent blog? How do we live passionate motivated lives? I haven’t lived that in a very More >
Horizontal career change…is it a good thing?
Oct 6th
So i find myself in a very interesting position of having to make a career move but within my same workplace. For those of you who don’t know, I’m a New Media Director at a leading Ad agency here in Kampala. Actually i do believe i’m the only such person in the local ad industry. Basically i deal with all the new medias of communication such as web and animation. It’s what i’ve done for a long time and apparently i’m some sort of legendary pioneer, along with the rogueking.
Anyways, i was brought on because the powers that be felt new media was gonna be a cash cow for them. Well it kinda didn’t work out as planned. Probably because I wasn’t given the support i was promised. Anyhoo an outside consultant seems to have convinced the CEO that my position is irrelevant and I should be either used as something else or shipped out(and i thought he was my ally)
So my CD seems to think i’m still a very creative person so he proposes I move my job description to one of a Copywriter cause he thinks i’ve got the makings of greatness-ok i’m embellishing a little-point is, i More >
The proverbial bandwagon
Oct 6th
Darn it, i just couldn’t resist anymore. The Bloggin craze has long been burning like an insane wild fire fueled by a petrol vapor breeze. I tried my best to stay out of it but truth be told, i’ve dying to get into it just so i can rant and rave and wax philosophical and pretend to be really wise and experienced. Life can get downright complicated and stressful that you need an outlet and honestly, people, real people, wont give you the time of day to do so(ironically they’ll read your blog so i guess there’s some wierd kinda secret pleasure that we all get from reading about other peoples rants!)
So anyways, this is my blog. Who am I? Well I’m a recently married young African black male(the odds are really against me when you read that description?!) whose honestly seeking to become a much better human being and contribute to my wife, family and world in a powerful positive way. To do this, I have taken up an Apprenticeship to the greatest Man to have ever impacted the world, Yeshua a.k.a Emmanuel aka Christ aka Messiah aka GOD. Why Him? Well I love to read self help and More >
